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| *Health issues>>>Mental Health issues |
have no income or no friends,am in a vey stressfull life, need imediate help to cheer me up am already depress |
Issue can't leave home, have 11 yr old in school, only want to lay in bed all day and i know this is bad for my son, ahole husband lives here also and refuses to leave or get counseling Best Tip Wow. I sure have been there, in , some form, close to it, and I feel for you! BUT - ..... I had to smack my own ***. Really. BELEIVE me, it takes alot. To stand up an say,...I'm not going to take this anymore. Its sucks too, cuz,...........""""kids pay"""". They feel it. They know it. Its not fair. They didn't ask to be born. My mom told me,........"""if you don't do anything about it,...you've givin up any right you have to ***** about it""". I still hear her saying it. And I'm 44 now. It can't get worse from where your at. IT CAN ONLY GET BETTER!! What do you want to do?? Do you like kids?? Take in a few kids babysitting to make some money, so you can plan your next move! Sell your stuff. Its just stuff. Do what ever it takes to make YOURSELF and YOUR BABY!!! HAPPY>!!!! I could be your friend. I'd write to you. Everyone needs someone to talk to. If you don't have a friend, sister, kin, doctor, priest, ""stuffed animal"" < -- kiddin.... :-) You can write me in here! LIFE IS TOOOOOOOO SHORT, MY FRIEND! And GOD has a plan for you. That plan doesn't involve laying in bed watching your blood (son) grow. He needs to see you happy. Good luck to you!!!!! Others You need to go to yur local mental health clinic Straight up - go see a doctor - not a walk in doctor, they aren't much help unless they consistantly see you. You've got to take this depression one day at a time - not so overwhelming. This to shall pass. Step one - talk to your doctor about medication or support before it gets worse (depression can always get worse). For me, medication was the first step. I couldn't begin to change my mindset without it, suddenly a weight lifted. Not that I still don't have bad days (or weeks), but the biggest change was energy. The get up and go, and the I don't have to take this **** no more returns too. Sounds like that's just what you need. Take care. Nothing in your life is permanent, since this is the case there's nothing to take seriously... Get a therapist to come to the house or a clergyman - someone you trust, if you truly can't leave the house. Do you have agorophobia? If so, mental health professionals will come to you. You need help before your child is taken away from you for neglect...as for your husband, let him take care of himself. You need to take care of YOU - for you and your son. |
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