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How to become a mature person? |
Issue I feel akward when people treat me as an immature person. M 21 years old. Talanted Guy. I don't speak much by my nature. Coz i don't like to talk unnecessarily. I remain silent much of d time. I don't hav good friends. All r jealous of me. I don't speak against them coz i don't want to hurt anyone's heart. I wish that i shud hav a Gf bt not able to do so, coz people think as if m of childish nature. Due to d behavior of people towards me, i turn Shy and depressed. I don't know what to do! How 2 b a mature person? How can i improve my self? What all things i shud remember? If anyone has understood my problem, can giv me ur solutions to this problem. I vl be very thankful to u!.... Best Tip cant believe u have the same prob as mine..i dont have good friends,i have nothing to say in most of conversation and i hate to socialize due to my weakness in talking to people.most of my friends in my college dont treat me well due to my imcapable in talking..but at least u re lucky to be a brilliant person.people still look up on u.but its hard when it comes to conversation innit.i think its becuz u re too focusing in ur job innit n now u re turning to be a not so good conversationalist..same as me....i know im too focused in my studies since i was a kid,so i didnt talk much n now loook at me,a weirdo..im trying to change myself.yeah thats what i want u to do.change urself.i know it s really hard cuz ive tried before but it didnt work now that im teenager.but is it all about maturity thing?emm,im not sure.yea, i do think im not matured too compared to others who r the same age as me.cuz i dont talk too much.why people dontlike quite person?i have no idea.u know iwish to be somebody else.although i have good look,but it s not important.the more u can talk better,the more people want to befriend u.thats what i observe.so all i can say is try to talk more.me too.i have to change myself too.its hard innit when u dont like to tlak but u have to force urself..but thats reality Others Grammar. Everyone loves a person that can spell. The first step is to get over the idea that people are jealous of you and that's why you don't have friends. Then go from there. Maturity comes with age, and learning experiences Dude, I know EXACTLY where you're coming from. I'm 26, and am just now coming out of my shell. I always hated when anyone started being serious about things. It just sort of came to me over time. Since I pretty much HAD to deal with the world or be homeless. After I started opening up, I find myself saying "Hi" to complete strangers now. A thing I previously never imagined doing. Do you tend to avoid people you don't know at almost any cost? Do you find yourself easily entertained all alone? I know how it is. You either have to force yourself out, or life will force it out of you. You need to come out of your shell and socialize. Think of it like this. If you were a girl looking for a guy, would you find you attractive? What do you think your best quality is, bring that out and share it with the world. Time and understanding will bring you maturity. Look at the bigger picture of things. Think about how other people feel. why are they jealous of you? i cant imagine what you are doing to upset people, now to me its childish to use the kind of language you are, coz is not a word, its because. dont use numbers and letters to stand for words, use proper language writing , typing, talking. you might find out if there is anyone near you who teaches manners and how to communicate. |
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