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is thoughts on killing yourself a sign of depression? |
Issue my dad is always stressing me to get good marks. he sometimes hit me with a kitchen spoon - like spanking. its not uncommon since we're from asia. but now i have bad relationships with my siblings as well. they pick on me and dont listen to me - which makes me really mad. and my parents yell at me for somethings that are not even worth yelling about... so when my dad punishes me, i cry alot in my bed and think about how i should suicide and make my parents regret how they teated me - but i know i wont do it... but i still think about it! if this is a depression, how can i get rid of this depression? not pills or medicine, but "natural remidies"... Best Tip All parents want their kids to do the very best they can do. My mom and dad used to whoop me all the time when I was young. I always ignored my siblings when they got on my nerves. I grew a deaf ear when my mom used to shout about through the house for no good reason. You're taking things entirely too seriously. Lighten up, don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure you know when your pops is coming with the "spoon". Just be glad it's not a leather strap or even worse, a switch.(A thin, long tree branch used to beat kids. It's a southern USA tradition!) And remember, you'll be grown soon. Others Yes, that is a very big sign of depression. Why don't you try just talking to someone? Talk to a close friend about your problems, that's what I always do. Good luck, and God bless. This sounds simple, but when I was depressed, shooting some hoops with a friend or doing something fun usually helped me feel better. Little by little. exercise produces natural endorphins making you feel better lol i can just see a funnny answer coming up to this.. but yes that is a depression, how to get rid of it, i dont know Go see a counselor and talk to them -until your living conditions improve you will stay depressed! I don't know if it's depression as much as it's feeling the effects of a disfunctional family. If I were you I'd write to Dr. Phil, I wrote once and a producer called me! They really read it, give it a try. Remember this: You teach people how to treat you. This applies mostly to your siblings as your dad and the spoon thing you can't control. STAND UP for yourself, let them know its NOT OKAY to treat you like that. And if you feel comfortable say to your parents the next time they are yelling at your for no apparent reason.... calmly...When you yell at me, I feel ______, would you please talk to me the way you want to be talked to? You can do this! I will be so proud of you when you do! Good luck babe :) PP |
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