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my girlfriend is bi polar and she cries and gets really sad when we have sex are these normal symptoms.? |
Issue shes taking lithium and others meds but sometimes she will be happy for like a couple minutes and minutes later she will cry and this happens when we are having sex but i stop having sex with her because of this and she tells me that she will get it from someone else if i dont do it . Best Tip For someone who is bipolar, this is normal for them. Bipolars have many different emotions that don't seem to be appropriate for the time and the occasion- at times. Just let her know that you are there for her. Please try not to take it out on your girlfriend when she behaves in a way that doesn't seem appropriate and remember, she is sick. The first poster displayed extreme ignorance. There is nothing funny about that. Others LOL......... SORRY ARE YOU SERIOUS? ........... STILL LOL!!! living in sin...not married and having sex is a SIN... god didnt recommend or have you consider you not to sin, GOD COMMANDS... if you break the rules.. you go a whole set of other rulez... Period.. committing adultery is a sin some girls cry having sex. OK there may be other stuff going on but she has also told you not to stop stuffing her full of sex so enjoy. Sometimes, crying during or after sex, is just scrambled emotions being released, nothing more. It probably would have went away if you'd been a bit more caring. I'm sorry - that doesn't sound like an easy situation. Is she seeing a therapist? I had a bi polar friend and he would go through highs and lows, though his were more spaced out. Is she in the middle of adjusting to a new medication? If so, that may be why she's on such an intense emotional roller coaster. Regarding the sex, however, I would recommend sitting down with her (in an non-confrontational way) and talking to her about why she would try to get it from someone else if you don't want to have sex with her because she's crying. I can tell you are upset about this and you want her to be happy, so perhaps also explain this to her, but also explain to her how you feel when she's crying during sex and if there's anything you two can do to resolve that. Ask her if there is a reason she is crying during sex - if she is thinking about something that is bothering her, or if she just gets sad suddenly. If it's the latter, suggest she discuss it with her therapist to try and work through that as it might be a subconscious problem. Also, lithium is a very intense drug - have they given her anything to counteract its effects? If not, perhaps this is something she can discuss with her doctor so she can get something that will balance out the levels in her system because lithium manly works with the manic side of bi polar disease. I hope this helps. |
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